Difficulties in a romantic relationship is the number one topic for my client’s sessions. Our partners push our buttons, sometimes inadvertently, sometimes, on purpose. Those “buttons” are our woundings from the past, that we have been carrying around for a very long time. Many of our “buttons” can only be reached through an intimate connection with others.
I have been utilizing hypnotherapy for some time now. In hypnosis, one can access information from their higher mind to learn about the purpose of their current relationship, the reason one experiences problems with their partner, and the ways to heal the relationship or, sometimes, end it. This information comes from my clients, I only follow there lead, not interfering with the flow, gently guiding them to ask the right questions.
Here is what I have learned from my sessions about intimate relationships:
- Your relationships are not about love, they are about learning lessons. Those may be lessons of acceptance, abuse and victimhood, disagreements, betrayals, and many others.
- You have agreed to those lessons before you came into this life.
- You have created contracts with other souls about those lessons.
- You have already attempted to master those lessons over many, many previous lifetimes, probably, with the same partner.
- The attraction you feel to your partner is the movement of your soul that recognizes another soul with whom a contract has been created beforehand.
- Your relationship ends when its lesson has been learned.
- When people stop living together, the energetic link between them does not disconnect if the lesson is unfinished. In this case, your connection moves in a new phase, when you begin experiencing strong negative emotions towards your “ex”.
- This state of animosity will persist until you learn the lesson. It may follow you in a new relationship where you will be learning yet another lesson, or, frequently, the same one. In this case, you may find yourself with two energetic links, one with your new partner, another one with your ex.
- Only when you really learn your lesson, your relationship will end. In this case, your animosity towards your ex will disappear and you will feel neutral towards them. If you still feel some emotions towards your ex-partner, you have not finished with the lesson.
If you would like to learn more about your soul constructs, lessons in your relationships, and the ways of creating new fulfilling relationships, I invite you to join me at my upcoming workshop “Creating Fulfilling Intimate Relationships” this Sunday, June 28th at 6 PM via Zoom.